The Inner Notion: Get An Upgrade

I was just looking through a few blogs and couldn't help but to feel bad for certain girls. There is nothing to be proud of about having a skater dude for a boyfriend. This girl was bragging her sad ass off about her apparently very talented bf...... In skateboarding. How is that even something worth a write-up I will never understand. My fellow ladies, just a simple advice, these days it's not just about love anymore. Not being materialistic or anything, but a guy do have to be stable financially so that he is able to provide for you. That is being responsible. There you go talking about hiring your friends as your bridesmaids(btw what in the world is that crap. You don't "hire" bridesmaids. They should be of close acquaintances and do it voluntarily right, what are friends/relatives for anyway and it's your BIG day afterall come on) Why are you even thinking of marriage at such a tender age. Plus with a boy like that, don't think you guys will make it far. It's just really pathetic to boast about something that's not even worth two cents writing about. It's freaking 2014, haven't you guys learnt anything yet? Yeah those cool skater boys, tattooed punk guys, in-trend clubbers/towners(???) who dress up really well(whatever your taste is) may seem really appealing and attractive but don't be fooled. It is true that no one is able to decide for you who you should fall in love with and that fate lies in God's hands but as much as possible, look for someone with all the good qualities in him and not just his cool factor. Time to get an upgrade, girls.

On a side note, this post is going to be super draggy cause I wanna talk about something else!!!!! Haven't blogged for awhile now I think it is only appropriate to make up for all these months I've been missing in action in the blogging world.

So for the past 1 year I have been blessed to know a very charming and good-looking man who was a foreigner in our country. He was my first Caucasian boyfriend and the one who was very generous with his knowledge and experience. He taught me a lot of things and was always so patient with me. It was really disheartening to finally have to part our ways as there was no way I could leave everything behind and just pack up and leave my family to go to France with him. And I still have education to go through, career to think about and most importantly, family to cherish.

So this is the man himself, Charles Grant. Better known as Charlie to me. I miss him but I feel happier to know that he's doing well in France with his family back home.