Charming, loving and everything sugar and spice. 6 foot tall. Lean and fit. Captivating killer eyes. Sharp Caucasian nose. Or one of an Arab's perhaps. Small kissable lips that leaves butterflies in your stomach.
Oh yes it's pretty delusional.. But if true to my description guy fell down on his both knees and put a ring on your finger, you'd still be down for it right?
Now let's talk about the man of my dreams.
Number 1 criteria: Responsible.
Why?
He can have all the money in the world or he could be out-of-this-world good-looking but if he takes credit for what his parents give him and not work his own ass for the things he received, he'd still be of zero man value.
Number 2 criteria: Respectful.
I don't get shit when people say they want someone who's faithful but you won't know if he can just act all nice and loyal upfront but still keep a side hoe right?
But you know that a man who is respectful to people regardless of their status and other demographic titles is a man who has a stand. He has principles which he feels obligated to and he's civilized enough to know that everyone should be treated with the same equal regard. That's a real man right there.
Number 3 criteria: Understanding.
Mutual understanding is important to build trust among each other. When you have someone who's tolerant of your busy schedule and trust you, you won't ever have to worry about dealing with a crazy psychotic boyfriend who constantly blows up your phone to check on your whereabouts.
This is what I'm very particular about. I can't have a guy who's super clingy and expect me to be at his beck and call 24/7. Because a woman needs a wise man, not a needy boy who still has a lot to learn.
Number 4 criteria: Good sense of humor.
Nothing like a great guy who can make you crack your senses up after a long bad day. Or just make you be carefree and laugh about anything so that you will feel so much at ease with him and feel good about life. Because even if everything is going wrong, at least you know that you did one thing right: To land a great and funny guy like him.
Of course, having said all this, you can't expect someone to have all the attributes you desire in them because no human is made perfect, otherwise we'd all be the same Good Samaritan or Barbie and Ken and that's boring.
And I gotta admit that looks do play a part for me because you know, an easy on the eyes guy with commendable features is every girl's weakness. Or maybe it's just me. Anyone beg to differ?
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